Let me say right away that I am thankful for my family and friends. I am also thankful that I enjoy hundreds of freedoms daily that others in this old world only dream about. Just so that you know I feel very blessed.
I recently read a post about being thankful for the people who help you through the rough times in life. I sort of made me stop and think about my crappy times. As much as I would like to hit the delete key and erase them out of my memory I can’t. But in some weird way I am thankful for them.
My rough times have shown me what I am made of and who I can count on. It has allowed me to gain empathy for others in that same situation. I think my crap time has contributed as much or maybe more than the good times I have had. At my ripe old age I have had a fair share of crappiness. That experience has taught me that I will get through it eventually, even though I know things will suck for a while. That is just the way it has to be. So here is to the crap in my life and to the good, as that old song says “ You can’t have one with out the other.”
It is hard for us to relate to others until we go through our own stuff.
ReplyDeleteI try to be thankful in crappy times, too, knowing that they are momentary.
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ReplyDeleteHey, if it wasn't for those bad times, how would we EVER realize how good we really have it when things are hunky-dory, right?
You nailed it.
Good post.
Stay safe (and comfy) down there.